Are you in a relationship where:
- your yesterday’s do not hold against your today?
- the mistakes of your past are not used to disturb the pleasantness of your today?
- you are able to trust somebody’s intentions even if you cannot approve of their actions?
- you need not explain yourself to anyone?
- someone brings out the goodness in you and makes you realize how nice you are?
- you feel you are in the womb of your mother,so protected,so secure?
- you don’t transect;(you did so much,so i will do so much, you have not done so much so i will not do so much)?
- what somebody does, and what somebody does not do,does not affect your love towards them?
- irrespective of what you “receive”, you are a “giver” for life?
- you do not use your intelligence to negotiate(why should i do?? n blah blah)?
if you have any one of these relationship, then you must go down on your knees and be thankful to God for giving you such a beautiful relation.
if you don’t ave any such relationship,then like God said:”Do unto others what you would have them do unto you”,try to be that relation to someone who would feel the same..
Give love to all.. “love” should be like a bloating paper or vacuum cleaner which absorbs all nastiness,bad temper,suppressions,complaints,and almost everything to keep the relationship clean and healthy.
(this article is from a speech given by someone! )